The Baby Ventures of Xing Mom

A Dad's Role In Delivery


What role can a dad play in labor and delivery?

The father's role in childbirth has changed dramatically since the days when spouses paced the hospital waiting room, anxiously awaiting a doctor's announcement: "It's a girl." Today, many men are involved from the moment the pregnancy test comes back positive, attending prenatal appointments, childbirth classes, and, after the birth, father-baby groups.

Some men are comfortable with a lot of involvement, and some aren't. And not all men relish the thought of being present during labor and delivery. But for most, seeing their child born is one of life's great moments.


How can I prepare for this role?

Childbirth classes are invaluable. You'll likely feel more confident after learning what to expect during labor and childbirth, acquiring ideas and techniques to help your wife or partner through the experience. If you still feel anxious about your role, a birth assistant, or doula, can help tremendously during labor, not only coaching your partner but also encouraging you to relax and participate comfortably. If that sounds intriguing, talk it over with your partner.

Also, make sure you know all the ins and outs of the hospital where you plan to deliver. Take a tour of the facilities, and make sure that husbands or partners can be present throughout labor, birth, and in the hours and days after your baby is born. Most hospitals have come into the modern age, but some have restrictions about who can be present during a c-section or at other times.